My ideal night in would consist of watching movies, making dinner and talking to each other, but he seems more preoccupied with the next time he can get in my pants. Sex is important to me, sure, but so is a strong emotional connection. It makes me less attracted to him. The more my boyfriend pressures me to have sex , the less I want to do it. It makes him seem whiny and needy.

My boyfriend and I have been dating a while, and he wants to have sex. I feel like I sound stupid or selfish. Next, the decision to have sex is a big decision! Do you feel pressured?

And guys are also pressured to have sex with their girlfriends. In the end, some bargain away their bodies in their attempt to keep the relationship going. But in the process, they lose their self-respect and gain the very real possibility of unwanted pregnancy, diseases, rape, bad reputation, and of course, a broken heart.

I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years. In these past 3 years we have seen each other consistently about days a week, and we live close to each other. However, I feel like our sex drives are completely out of sync. Regardless, I please him almost every time we see each other to keep him satisfied, but it can be difficult after my longer days of work.